Arthi brought this up a while back, and it was too good of an idea to pass up! I will start a poll to decide the schedule (i.e. every first Wednesday of the month: 3pm pst vs another day/time). I am planning for it to be a monthly thing; If you are interested in this event, please message me via forum message/Discord/in-game with a date/time suggestion and I will add it to the poll! *The poll is up now, with a few options that work for me that should also work well for others. The times on Saturday will not interfere with pre-existing guild Wind events.

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It is intended for women and girls only, but anyone who identifies as such is welcome.

Lying about identification just to get into the event will be seen as a serious infraction and be dealt with accordingly.


It will be held in a different- LOCKED- homestead each time it happens,

and what happens at ladie's night stays at ladie's night!

I will host the first one, and we will move through volunteer's homesteads each month.


It is to be a safe place for us to talk to each other about anything and

build comradery between the female members. Possible topics may include:

*Crushes!

*Makeup tips

*Style advice, for in and out of game

*Body image

*Sexuality (Questions about it, unsureness of how to handle it, etc)

*Period talk.
Gotta admit, shark week leads to some funny stories!
-and the female body/health in general.



Those are not all of the topics that may come up, but regardless of the content

I expect the utmost respect to be shown for each member, by each member.

This is not a place to make someone feel bad. We are doing this to empower

each other and to face the world with the confidence that we are not alone in our struggles.

(Please keep lewdness to a minimum!)

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It's meant to be light-hearted and fun but there is also a serious aspect to it.
Although it is a private function, the guild rules still apply.


I will always be present to mitigate and keep an eye on the conversation.

In any case of an incident, I will take screenshots of the chat log and share with the staff members for review.


With that, I kindly ask that deep consideration goes along with everything said!

If you say something that makes the person upset,

and you realize it after-the-fact; APOLOGIZE! Let them know it wasn't intended!

Slip-ups like that happen, but it's not the end of anybody's world.



Denying someone at these nights the safety and respect that they deserve with

no remorse is a high crime in my eyes and will result in immediate expulsion

from current and future ladie's nights.

Were you having a rough day and lashed out? Talk to me about it after you settle!

Lashing out is never really okay, but it's not a thing we actively think about when upset.

It always leaves us with at least a little clean-up afterwards.



Take time for yourself and explain circumstances, then apologize to the people involved.

There will be a "time-out" period after this that the person will not be allowed to attend

Ladie's Night. Length will be dependent on severity and remorse.